This quote, “The ugliness of the beauty is much horrible than the ugliness of the ugliness,” is a thought-provoking paradox that encourages us to question our perceptions and assumptions about beauty and ugliness. At its core, it suggests that when something or someone who is considered beautiful behaves in an ugly manner or reveals an ugly truth, it’s far more shocking and disappointing than when something or someone already perceived as ugly does so.
In essence, we tend to hold beauty – whether it refers to physical attractiveness, talent, intelligence or any other admired trait – on a pedestal. We often associate beauty with goodness and positivity. So when this association is shattered by an act of cruelty, deceit or any form of ‘ugliness’, it feels like a betrayal. The disappointment stemming from this unexpected ‘ugliness’ in beauty can be more distressing than encountering ‘ugliness’ where we already expected it.
Applying this idea to today’s world could take many forms. For instance, in relationships: if someone we admire greatly disappoints us with their behavior – such as lying or cheating – the pain can be much worse because our expectations were higher due to their perceived ‘beauty’. Similarly in society at large: if a respected public figure acts unethically – their actions can seem even more scandalous due to their previously held position of respect.
In terms of personal development too, this quote has relevance. It serves as a reminder not to idealize people based purely on outward appearances or superficial traits (their ‘beauty’). Instead one should value substance over surface-level attributes and understand that everyone has flaws (‘ugliness’) regardless how they appear externally.
Moreover,it also emphasizes on being authentic rather than putting up pretenses just for societal acceptance because eventually when the mask falls off,the disappointment caused would be greater.This highlights importance of self-acceptance & authenticity over mere appearance management for long-term personal growth,satisfaction & mental well-being.