This quote essentially argues that our existence is not something we chose, but rather a given. We didn’t decide to be born or to exist; it just happened. However, while we may not have control over the fact of our existence, we do have control over how we perceive and respond to it. This is where ‘the way you feel about it’ comes in.
The second part of the quote suggests that our feelings towards our own existence are within our control. We can choose whether to view life with negativity or positivity, whether to see challenges as insurmountable obstacles or opportunities for growth, and whether to let circumstances define us or shape them according to our will.
Applying this idea in today’s world and personal development could mean acknowledging that while there are many things beyond one’s control (e.g., global events, other people’s actions), one always has a choice on how they react and feel about those situations. For instance, during a crisis like the COVID-19 pandemic where much is uncertain and uncontrollable, individuals can still choose their perspective – seeing this time as an opportunity for self-reflection and growth rather than just a period of fear and anxiety.
In personal development terms, understanding this concept can be empowering because it shifts the locus of control internally: instead of feeling helpless against external forces (like societal expectations), individuals realize they have power over their internal world (emotions and reactions). They may not choose what happens in life but they can choose how they respond which ultimately shapes their experience of being alive.
So this quote encourages us all not only to exist passively but also actively engage with life by choosing positive attitudes towards whatever comes along – turning adversities into adventures on the journey called life.
